Archive for December, 2011

Relatable Quotes

Collections of some quotes / statements I have come across some or the other times and found myself relating to them:

  • Movies are the reasons we have such high expectations of relationships.
  • Me without friends = normal. Me with friends = slightly hyper. Me with my best friend = MENTALLY RETARDED.
  • A person who irritates you always is the one who loves you very much but fails to express it.
  • If someone can’t stop doing things that you don’t want them to do, it only means that they love those things more than they love you.
  • I’m a girl. I don’t smoke, drink, or party every weekend. I don’t sleep around or start drama to get attention. Yes, we still do exist.
  • Sometimes we expect more from others just because we would be willing to do that much for them.
  • I like long text messages because I appreciate a complete thought.
  • Sometimes I like to pretend that I’m okay because I don’t want to annoy people with my problems.
  • To keep a girl you have to: 1) Keep your promises. 2) Be romantic no matter what. 3) Be honest with her 100% of the time.
  • If a girl replies ‘k’, you did something to piss her off.
  • Sometimes tears are a sign of unspoken happiness, and a smile is sign of silent pain.
  • When you finally realize you didn’t matter at all to someone, you begin to wonder if you matter to anyone.
  • A real man doesn’t love a million girls, He loves one girl in a million ways.

Of Intuition & Instinct

Ever experienced a day when you wake up and feel öh!! what a beautiful day!!! it’s gonna be a nice day for me and I might get some good news too… and bang!!! Something bad happens out of the blue which you never expected to happen and suddenly you are left thinking “how my intuition can be so wrong!!!” And you feel how in this world it’s too difficult to trust even your own instincts leave alone other people???

The world is a mixture of all type of people good, bad, rich, poor, charming, filthy etc etc.

Often it happens that good people get discouraged due to bad people because bad or not so good people outweigh good ones. Good people may get disheartened by lack of support or rather opposition or criticism by not so good people and after some time they may try to adopt to the ways of not so good people just to get their acceptance. After all we human beings are social animals and crave for the acceptance by the society. None can live alone out of the society.

But I believe that the good people, the right ones,  should not think of themselves as unworthy of being part of the group of those not so good people, they should not take this as their nonacceptance by such people and feel upset or try to change their way. Instead, they should carry on with all the goodness, all the right principles and beliefs they have.

Its not they who are not fit for others, its others who can not match their high level… its not they who don’t deserve company, its those not so good people who aren’t any good to even sit with them.

Imperfection makes us human

We as human beings, have our own drawbacks, fears and imperfections. And I believe there’s nothing wrong in it. It’s right that one should continuously strive for self-improvement but none can ever be perfect. And what’s the fun in life if we are always right and totally perfect. Life’s real fun is in imperfection only.

But some people like to pretend themselves as perfect. They want to be perceived as above simple human beings, they like to talk big. Not only do they talk, they actually nurture their misconceptions about themselves and don’t admit that they are wrong even after failing trials again and again.

Yeah!! there are people who would say that I don’t expect anything from anyone, I am a self-reliant man and some would say that I have complete control on my mind and thought process and nothing can bother me. Some people brag about their bravery, some blabber about their extra ordinary capability of resisting temptations, some are proud of never losing temper etc etc.

I mean what’s the point in telling all these big things if you can’t actually prove them through practice. These things would matter only if others say those good things about us instead of us telling others about ourselves.

Well, whatever!!!

For me it is more important to be a normal simple human being full of all the imperfections such as attachment, expectations, anger and irritation, a bit of dependence on others etc. This is what makes us human. The only thing is that there needs to be a balance and an easy to handle mix of imperfections and good qualities.

I don’t know about others but honestly speaking I enjoy my imperfection!!!

An Afterthought: If God would have wanted us to be perfect, he would have created us like that only.