Category: Realization

She had to act fast.. the decision was to be taken now… she had to come out with the solution before its too late…. It was a matter of life or death.

Her partner had backed out leaving her alone with her head whirling around and she lay there helpless and restless.. on the hospital bed waiting for the doctor to start the procedure…

A sudden gush of realization and a surge of practicality coupled with deepest emotions made her cry out loud and it was the moment she had made her mind. She stood up… she had decided to bring that life on earth… she had overcome her fears, she was a strong girl now who had satisfaction of having saved two lives- one of her unborn child and the other of herself as what was about to happen would have certainly made her die a thousand deaths every day!!!


Value of some things which we take for granted is realized only when we are about to lose them or in some cases it happens only after we actually lose them.

I am feeling the same these days when I am about to leave behind all the good times, all the fun and cheerful times I have had with my friends here. Suddenly, time taken out to have a coffee together with a close group of friends (be it only 15 minutes) has started to seem like the best thing to do. Lunch in the canteen which used to be a chore has now become something which I look forward to. And many such small things which used to go unnoticed earlier have now become too important to miss.

I feel like gathering as much memories and have as much fun as I can in these last days. It is because I know I am going to a new place, new surroundings and where finding such nice friends would not be an easy thing, given the fact that I am not good at initiating conversation and approaching people.

I must admit here that last two years have been some of the best times I have had during my life in the city. I so wish it to go on the same way as it is but law of nature is something which is not in human control – “It is very rightly said that change is the only constant in the world”. So, it is time for me to move on for my own improvement, for my career growth and for the greater enrichment of my personal and professional knowledge. It’s time to go out and meet new people, to make some more friends and to get some new experiences in life.

Would like to sum it up by quoting that no matter how lovely a city is, it is the people around who make it worth living in it and I have been lucky enough to have such nice people around 🙂

Count your blessings

There are some days when you find it hard to survive… the days when you feel too low and dull… when everything seems to be going wrong… Keep patience… think of the things you are happy for, people who are there for you and count your blessings… I am sure many times it might happen that you will find more reasons to smile than to be sad and cry…. Its just that sometimes we give unnecessary importance to negative feelings and let them control our behavior and responses and forget about good things in our life which makes us look at each new day with new hope and makes our life worthwhile.

Random Realization!!!

I have seen most of the times that people find it hard to appreciate someone for their good qualities but they can very easily get involved in criticizing others’ faults no matter how petty they are!!!

दीपावली जाने कब से बस दिवाली हो गयी
पहले जैसी खुशियों से अब खाली हो गयी
कभी था ये रिश्तो के साथ का त्यौहार निराला
अब तो बस एक रस्म ये निराली हो गयी !!!

Reading – A rare hobby??

I never realized that reading is such a rare hobby. Actually, I don’t know whether it actually is a rare hobby or it’s simply just the people around me, my friends & acquaintances are not interested in reading.

I like reading. I read magazines, novels, blogs, forward mails, newspapers, interesting content on net. In short, reading is an inseparable part of my routine and I never let go of any opportunity to read something new and interesting.

But, when I see around I don’t find anyone who shares my hobby. I don’t find anyone with whom I can discuss on my readings, with whom I can exchange books and magazines which they find interesting and suggest me to read.

My friends are not even interested in reading my blogs. One reason for this may be that my writing doesn’t interest them, they may be finding it boring. But If it is so, then why don’t they come up with the feedback. It’s simple – Read & comment honestly. But no they can’t even do this.

Leave alone my blog, they don’t even read any forward mail which is more than 20-30 words long. They say, we can’t read such long mails. Long mails!!!! Do you call a 20-30 words long mail a long mail?? What has happened to the basic definitions.. God knows.

Anyways, so my point is why do people fear reading?? Why do they take it as something requiring gigantic efforts?? I have always believed that reading helps you learn new things, helps enriching one’s knowledge, widens you mind and enables you to see things in new light or different perspective. And according to me, no reading at all hampers one’s growth in a way.

Well, I can’t do anything about it but my search for someone who shares my hobby of reading is on. Wish me luck..  & till then happy reading to all the readers…