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Sometimes I myself wonder how confused soul I am!!! I am never sure about what I want in life… And that’s the reason why I use passive technique instead of active approach to life.. since I myself am not clear I avoid taking decisions and taking steps to change the status quo and wait for the next change that is brought by life itself.. Whenever, life presents me a situation where I have to take a decision and do something to bring about a change I find myself resisting to go ahead and make it happen as I am afraid of it turning out worse than the current situation.. I feel like interfering in nature’s events.. somewhere deep in my mind I have a belief that whatever will happen on its own would be the best thing for me.. but I hv also realized through experience that I have lost so many opportunities due to this thought process.. So, with this self realization I have decided to take my life in my hands and to do what it takes to bring in the positive change and success.. even if it turns out to be not as expected I will have the satisfaction of being in charge of my life and there would be no regrets of not trying And what’s the excitement in living a day as it comes.. the real fun lies in living the day as you want it to be.. So, I hv decided to take the driver’s seat in my journey.. what about you?


Learning by experience…

Learnt a strategy today.. if u are a super senior and u kno for sure that your subordinates won’t get good rating… make them believe that you want to give them the best rating but it won’t be possible just bcoz their immediate superior didn’t bother to track and improve their performance. And he/she is solely responsible if they don’t get expected rating. So that they don’t blame you for their not as expected appraisal… and what do you get by doing this.. you get their loyalty for life and become a ideal senior to them who wants to contribute towards their growth but can’t do because of their direct superior who didn’t bother to do anything for their good…

You idiot woman!!!

It had started as a silly arguement and ended with “You idiot woman!!!”

The next second it all went dark and numb.. she wasn’t able to absorb what had just happened…
Those two words were echoing in her ears.. Idiot woman…

Yes, he was right… so right.. she’s really been an idiot woman who sacrificed her dreams for him.. who compromised with her lifestyle just to make him happy.. who changed herself to be how he likes her to be… who thought for him first before thinking about herself… etc etc….

And snap!!! that idiot woman vanished away and there stoodย  an independent and confident woman ready to lead her life on her own terms…

Changes motherhood brings!!!

Just a random thought:
It’s so unbelievable how motherhood changes a lazy & careless girl to all responsible, super agile, so caring & concerned mom!!!

She had to act fast.. the decision was to be taken now… she had to come out with the solution before its too late…. It was a matter of life or death.

Her partner had backed out leaving her alone with her head whirling around and she lay there helpless and restless.. on the hospital bed waiting for the doctor to start the procedure…

A sudden gush of realization and a surge of practicality coupled with deepest emotions made her cry out loud and it was the moment she had made her mind. She stood up… she had decided to bring that life on earth… she had overcome her fears, she was a strong girl now who had satisfaction of having saved two lives- one of her unborn child and the other of herself as what was about to happen would have certainly made her die a thousand deaths every day!!!

Lovely Weekends :)

Weekends, weekends, weekends!!! Its a weekend again… and I can’t tell how much I love them ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚


Yup! Never have loved weekend as much as I do now… Why? You may ask….

Just because weekend is the time I get to spend with my hubby and know what!!! he’s so much fun to be with… In routine life with our busy office schedule it gets difficult to spend some time together… So, weekends are all we have to treasure.

By the way, weekend has always been much awaited for me being a lazy bum… I used to wait for weekend in child hood just to sleep till late in the morning… in college also for the same reason and also for some fun and shopping…

And the importance of weekends grew the most when I started working… ๐Ÿ™‚ Any one who works 6 days a week can understand what a weekend means in such case!!!

And now when I have some one to enjoy my weekend with I wait for it more eagerly… on weekends It feels like time is flying and its over too soon… coz we have so much to do, so many works to finish and lots of masti and dhamal…

And on Monday, :(:(:( this is how I am…

When I wake up on Monday, one song echoes in my head and that is… Bloody khooni Monday…..

ย I wish weekends could be bit longer….

For now just watch this video and laugh your heart out:

Feeling odd one out…

There are time and situations in life when one feels odd one out. It can be anytime, anywhere but never when one is with his/her best friends.. Rite???

But I had this strange experience of feeling odd one out while I was with my best friends… Friends who are closest and with whom I have spent most memorable and enjoyable moments.

Normally when you meet old friends after a long time you feel out of the world. But when you lose regular touch with friends and they move on making new friends, new circle and when you suddenly happen to join them with their new circle, you somehow feel odd one out until you are a show stealer.. ๐Ÿ˜‰ which certainly I am not.

Well, life has to flow and things have to move… I feel lucky to have got such lovely friends and their company in this fast paced life. All I wish is not to lose touch with such lovely souls.



My Yes+ (AOL) experience :)

How many of you have heard about Art of Living (AOL)?? I guess almost all have some or the way have herd about it.

I too had heard about it a lot but never was interested enough to go and experience it… I used to think it’s not something for me… I mean come on I am a young girl, how can something like that, something spiritual can be for me… but when I personally experienced it (thanks to longย persuasionย of my friend), I came to know that it’s completely different from normal perception of us youngsters…!!!

It’s not really a spiritual program or course, it’s in fact a scientifically prepared course to bring out our inner talent, our inner joy and most of all to experience inner peace….


My experience of four day Yes+ course is quite difficult to be expressed in words… it was an out of the world kinda experience and the Sudarshan kriya is amazing in itself… I don’t think any alcohol or drug can make you feel as high as Sudarshan Kriya makes… It gives you such a sweet hangover that everything around seems to be just right, just good.. ๐Ÿ™‚ It’s nothing but a scientifically correct way to breathe and experience mental peace.. In today’s world we don’t even breathe right, forget eating right….

So, in that sense I found it helpful and magical experience it was… though I don’t subscribe much to the spiritual content and not a very dedicated devotee of Sri Sri Ravishankar ji (Founder of AOL) but one thing I really enjoy is AOL bhajans and carefree dancing to the tune of those bhajans…. ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ˜€

ImageYup, all in all it can be said a joyful gathering of youngsters, who are ready to rock & roll and do lots of masti, sharing and learning…ย 

Long time since I have written something…so, just thought of coming and paying a long overdue visit to my own sweet blog… ๐Ÿ™‚

But I am not sure what to write about!!! Actually there’s not much movement in life to talk about… have been busy with my job that I am almost cut from the outer world… yeah, yeah I know it sounds like an exaggeration but it is my truth…

ImageLet me tell you all about what I have been thinking about recently… I have always been a firm believer of the saying that “Whatever happens, happens for a reason and also whatever happens, happens for good”. But lately, I have this feeling that it’s not completely true… may be it is because I am not able to understand the reason behind events and I am failing to see goodness what God is intending to shower upon me… ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

I am totally clueless but still hoping it all to be “blessing in disguise” fingers crossed.

Boring weekends :(

What a fool I am!!! Every weekend I log on to Facebook hoping more people available online due to it being weekend and find that even the regulars are not online… I forget everyone’s not spending their weekend like me sitting at home…. How boring my life has become these days… ๐Ÿ˜ฆ


but what to do?? A great man has said that “kuch pane ke liye kuch khona padta hai ๐Ÿ˜‰

Happy weekend to all!!!! Have fun and keep rocking ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ˜€